What is Love?
Love.... a very strange feeling... and u know it is love only when u feel it.... no other ways to experience it... u could be at the receiving end of love.... but i think nothing beats being reciprocate your love by loving u back.... and that's when u know.... something has just started which is forever.....
Love is blind... which is way something u ponder over why somebody could so something so outrageous for another person. Good or bad, it is really up to individual to judge.... and sometimes its only when u realise u are harming the person u love with your excessive love.... then u realise what wrong have u done.... and by then its too late....
For example, there are some mum who would always complain about everything that causes her son to fail his exam, like lousy teachers to lousy school and perhaps a lousy MOE in Singapore, but failed to reflect on the effort spent on nurturing her son....
This is just a common example that is happening everyday on pretext of love, and because everyone has a different meaning of love, so their actions and their interpretation of love is different...
Some guys spend on lavish gift, only to find their gf wish for more time being together.... some guys spend so much time on her, only to find that they need more materialistic items.... some guys keep certain things from their girl to not let them worry so much, only to realise that their girl wants to hear their problems and share the burden.... some girls wish for guys to listen to them, only to find that whatever they said is taken as complaint....
And it is because of all these different interpretation that requires what is known as communication. That's the main factor which will lead to whether your love is true or reciprocated or not excessive or u get the type of love u want to have, and not what u think what u give is what u want....
Anyway, miscommunication is always happening, as all humans are born different. Whatever it is, sometimes u realise when your gesture of love is being treated otherwise.... hurt comes in.... and things will never be the same as before.....
Love is blind... which is way something u ponder over why somebody could so something so outrageous for another person. Good or bad, it is really up to individual to judge.... and sometimes its only when u realise u are harming the person u love with your excessive love.... then u realise what wrong have u done.... and by then its too late....
For example, there are some mum who would always complain about everything that causes her son to fail his exam, like lousy teachers to lousy school and perhaps a lousy MOE in Singapore, but failed to reflect on the effort spent on nurturing her son....
This is just a common example that is happening everyday on pretext of love, and because everyone has a different meaning of love, so their actions and their interpretation of love is different...
Some guys spend on lavish gift, only to find their gf wish for more time being together.... some guys spend so much time on her, only to find that they need more materialistic items.... some guys keep certain things from their girl to not let them worry so much, only to realise that their girl wants to hear their problems and share the burden.... some girls wish for guys to listen to them, only to find that whatever they said is taken as complaint....
And it is because of all these different interpretation that requires what is known as communication. That's the main factor which will lead to whether your love is true or reciprocated or not excessive or u get the type of love u want to have, and not what u think what u give is what u want....
Anyway, miscommunication is always happening, as all humans are born different. Whatever it is, sometimes u realise when your gesture of love is being treated otherwise.... hurt comes in.... and things will never be the same as before.....
posted by sharon_alvin at 12:38 PM
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