I just realised the below post that's still saved under my draft. It should be made more than a year ago, where one of my close friends were undergoing a difficult phase of their life. While, they didn't work that out in the end. Nonetheless, at least they are now both happy with their individual life. Here's the below posts...



Having watched so many dramas, nothing stir my heart as much as what i'm watching now.

Local made - 再见单人床。

Of all, I learnt a lot on love, marriage and most importantly, being a husband.

3 scenes touched my raw nerves.

Episode 13 - Ting kai is being chided for being too "reasonable"

Episode 17 - "Heart" betrayal protrayed by Qiu Yu.

Episode 18 - Priest preaching on love. 爱是恒久忍耐，又有恩慈；爱是不嫉妒，爱是不自夸，不张狂，不作害羞的事，不求自己的益处，不轻易发怒，不计算人的恶，不喜欢不义，只喜欢真理；凡事包容，凡事相信，凡事盼望，凡事忍耐；爱是永不止息 ——《圣经》


Male creatures are logical thinking creatures. Everything is analysed. Every movement, speech, facial expression and situation is properly processed in the brain. Then, in response, we make calculated reply or reactions to the situation. The end result determine how good we are in making the decision.
 
Decisions - seemed to be the top most criteria in every male's character. I give my respect to the best decision making person, regardless of his status. 
 
Hence, in front of our greatest and most precious partner, we past our judgement values on them. That means we think they judge us based on how we make decision. They DO NOT. But this is already drilled into our sub-conscious, and is already part of us. During arguements, any situation that requires instant reflexes, we forget this criteria, that women don't judge us based on our ability to make decision.